My free advise borne out of over three decades of successful spellcasting to thousands of people allover the world is below. First of al, I commend you for the boldness to reach out and seek advice.
The way you trust a pilot to move you from one point to another. The same way you should trust a professional spellcaster. To do you bidding so that you concentrate on doing the things you know and do best. Even if a pilot showed you all the tools, knobs and dials in the cockpit, you cannot successfully fly an aircraft. It takes years of training, grooming and practice to perfect the game. In the same spirit, spell work should be entrusted to professional spellcasters to ensure you get the best possible result.
In other words, the simplest way to perform an ineffective love spell is to want to compromise on professionalism. Factually, someone who has no knowledge of the subject should not attempt to do what professionals do. It is for the same reason self medication is not advised. The same way you cannot pilot an aircraft or cruise ship without the requisite training qualifications, is the same way you should not dare do a spell on your own.
I will liken this to someone who goes to a medical practitioner at one of the regular hospitals with a medical problem. Which then is diagnosed, medicine prescribed and money is asked for. But instead, the patient demands that the doctor gives them different medicine and dosage altogether. If the doctor or medical practitioner barges, it is a sure way to have a medical problem that just worsens instead of healing.
Likewise, in metaphysics and consequently love spell casting, it is important to trust the professionals. You are a spell seeker with no expertise and no experience in dealing with the problem at hand. Please listen to the spellcaster to prescribe for you the right procedure. Then you will stand a chance to have your wishes come true.
Spell work, is a profession just like any other. And the dilemma is, it is not something you will go to school and learn or acquire, it is inborn.